Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Say It With Me

Whether he's got issues or not, homeboy is talented. I will definitely be downloading the rest of Chris Brown's new album FAME. This song and others on this album remind me of Michael J. :(



Do you all remember his tearful yet amazing (don't hate) tribute to the King of Pop? 

 

Monday, March 28, 2011

Week #9: Are you engaged?

I have to admit I was a little late in joining Facebook. I remember freshmen year at Mason, everyone going nuts over it, asking people to “friend” them. This was around the time that Myspace was still cool. I finally gave in my junior year and have been hooked ever since. It’s a super force of it’s own as it’s transformed from a network of college students to a worldwide phenomenon. Everyone is on FB.

When I think of FB, a couple words come to mind. Share, connect, networks, Mark Zuckerberg. But, going back to the idea sharing, the reason why FB is my favorite social network is because it’s the easiest and fastest way for me to keep in touch with my family and friends. I love being able to share photos of my adventures and post updates on my daily happenings (only if exciting) to people I may not have a chance to see and interact with everyday. I’m a firm believer in things being more fun when you can share them!

I also love being able to reach a large number of people in an instant. What used to take light years can now be done in a click of a button. Clay Shirky touches on this notion in “Here Comes Everybody” as he discusses how difficult it used to be to publish something and then have it reach various populations outside of your geographic area. He says, “Now, once a user connects to the Internet, he has access to a platform that is at once global and free. It isn’t just that our communications tools are cheaper; they are better.” So now that we are able to share more efficiently, we have to take it a step further and engage.

One of my favorite bloggers, Emily from Cupcakes and Cashmere does this very well and has created a strong following on her blog. She uses FB and Twitter as a supplement to her blog and shares photos of her outfits, travels, interior design and food. Emily has the ability to make everyday ordinary and otherwise mundane objects look like art. 

Photo from C&C  

When I first created the Gold Rushed page on FB, my intention initially was to build my presence by posting statuses of new posts and urging my family and friends to “like” the page. Now, my goal is to dive deeper and make it more interactive and focus on engaging, instead of just announcing. I could treat the Gold Rushed page as a semi-personal FB account, allowing followers to get to know me (if they don’t already). Here a couple things I have considered doing that may attract new followers and drive like-minded people to my blog.

  1. Posting some of my personal photos to Gold Rushed
  2. Posting inspirational quotes  (I’ve started to but need to more often, perhaps as a “Monday motivation” or “Mid week motivation”)
  3. Posting random YouTube findings or new songs I’m into
  4. Posting video blogs
  5. Posting relevant and current news and happenings

The only minor problem I see in this approach is the slight redundancy of posting to my personal page and then to Gold Rushed, as a good number of my friends are followers on my blog. But, maybe the double exposure isn’t so much a bad thing—maybe, the more the better especially since it’s so easy to get lost in the sea of updates.

I’ll leave you with a song that’s been stuck in my head for the past week.



Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Week #7: Blessing in Disguise

The weather in DC has been anything but normal this winter. One week the weather man is calling for a snow storm and the next, we've got 70 degree weather. It seems pretty inevitable that with these crazy weather changes, we are more prone to getting sick. I can't blame 100% of my sickness on global warming though. For the last month or so, I've been spreading myself thin. As I mentioned in my previous post, I always get into a little funk in the late winter months. Working full time and being a grad student is most definitely rewarding but to stay on top of things, one must be persistent, have good time management and self care. Many people become so consumed with their work, projects and events, that they forget and find very little time to take care of themselves. As a result, they become stressed, feel drained, lethargic and unmotivated which make them more susceptible to colds.

I am in no way a health or time management expert but I am guilty of being one of those people that forget a little self TLC. I definitely can't say that I'm surprised that I've been fighting a week long cold right now. Here are some tips from personal experience that may help you stay on top of things, including your health. 

Do write yourself a daily to-do list. Some people use their phones and there are those that just have excellent memory. I find writing it down much easier. 

Don't wait until the last minute. Yes, I know-- easy to say, hard to do. My Mom always says "If you have something to do, do it now." No matter how big or small it is, whether it's a project or grocery shopping, you'll be happy that you got it out of the way. 

Do spend some time outdoors. Instead of getting on the treadmill, take a brisk walk outdoors. Studies have shown that 30 minutes outdoors can greatly improve your mood. This is especially easier to do with your furry friend! 

Don't over exert yourself when it comes to exercise. Studies have also shown that 30 minutes of cardio a day is all you need. 


Do indulge in some quality sleep. If you can't get the recommended 8 hours, aim for 7. You'll be happier during the day and you'll be able to think more clearly. 

Don't think negatively. Worrying or complaining about something will not make the situation better. Negativity is like a disease and it can be incredibly draining. Never let someone steal your joy. Resist feeding into the negativity of others.  Instead, try to find the solution or an opportunity in the situation and move on.  

Do occasionally treat yourself. Reward yourself after a long week or after you've tackled your page long to-do list. 

Don't deprive yourself of the foods you love. Like they say, everything is good in moderation. But if you fully deprive yourself of having Starbucks or cupcakes, you'll find yourself craving it more than ever and eventually over indulging. 

Do spend some time in the kitchen. For the past couple of weeks, I've found myself grabbing food on the go or eating out at restaurants 2-3 times a week for the sake of saving time. Though it saves a couple hours away from the kitchen right after work, it ends up being very costly. So, plan your meals and hit the store ahead of time. Even if you're not the best cook, it can be fun experimenting and learning! 

Lastly, Don't over plan. I am especially guilty of this as I love, love, love to plan. I would have a panic attack if I ever lost my planner. But, over-planning can lead you to become over-stressed. Allow yourself a couple of nights out of the week (if possible) or a full weekend of no plans. Stay in and hibernate-- sleep, relax and make Netflix your best friend. Remember that Italian saying from Eat Pray Love? "Bel far niente"- the beauty of doing nothing. Yes, still trying to master this.

Many of these tidbits are things I've learned from my family, friends and through surfing the net. Thank goodness for Google which makes questions like "How do I de-stress?" or "How do I get over a cold quickly?" seem normal when it shoots back a million answers. To make my blog more relevant to Google, I've been linking to rich text and also utilizing tags. Because the topics I blog about tend to be pretty random, I am hoping it will drive a diverse audience and will allow me to connect with a larger group of people. I'm sure this post will resonate with a lot of my peers, especially those who are busy bees and love to be on the go. Who knows, maybe even you could use a little more "me" time :) 

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Week #6: Spring Fever

Spring is fast approaching and I couldn't be happier. I love living on the East Coast and having four seasons but it's those last weeks in winter when I always find myself in a rut. I always look at the beginning of a season as a fresh start and I'm always inquiring about new things I can try and get myself into. 

In our Social Media class, we've just begun reading "The Search." John Battelle discusses the phenomenon that is Google and it's extraordinary ability to give us the answers to what we're looking for. No matter who the searcher is or what you're typing in the search field, Google has had a profound impact on our society and has enabled us to acquire new information with just one click. Battelle says "The search all starts with you: your query, your intent-- the desire to get an answer, find a site, or learn something new." 

So what have I been googling for the past week? Spring fashion! It's fun to mix it up once in a while and put pieces together but I always find myself wearing my favorite clothing staples which mostly consist of black. And no, contrary to what so many people think (trust me, I get asked every other day), black does not mean you are goth or depressed! I know the color black is usually worn for sad occasions but I believe you can wear all black no matter what they occasion! It's chic, easy and let's face it, slimming! And, it can be a lot of fun playing around with different textures. It's also perfect for transitioning from daytime attire to night. Look at how fabulously elegant Victoria Beckham looks in all black. 

Photo taken from Zimbio.com

Though I'll continue to wear all black, I do want to add more color into my wardrobe for Spring and Summer. I find inspirations all over the net especially on blogs I mentioned here but I've also discovered that some of my favorite stores and retail websites have started blogs! These blogs aren't hugely advertised and I probably wouldn't have found them if it weren't for my online shopping hobby. I stumbled upon the Kate Spade blog after following their Twitter page. Their latest post features an office display that reads "The Year of Color," with a caption "Live colorfully!" Ha! Rent The Runway also has a cool blog that includes photos of their new pieces as well as their staff's favorite places and things. It's interesting to see what other fashion lovers are into! Here are a few things I'll be adding to my closet this Spring. 

White Lace
Love the structure of this top. Crisp and clean. 


Feminine Blouses 
Love the bow and this color! 
Lulus $33



Nude Heel

Lengthens legs and great for in/out of the office. 
  Nordstrom $89.95


Orange
Photo taken from People Style Watch. Amazing pop of color! Unexpectedly polished.


So fashion lovers, what are you most excited about this Spring?